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As you are deciding on which wedding rings you and your beloved desire to wear
as a symbol of your undying love for one another you may be interested in how
this practice came about and the true meaning of wedding rings.
The ring of course is a circle and a circle symbolizes infinity, agreement,
harmony, rebirth and the universe. In ancient times the rings was connected
with the Sun and Moon. It was believed that a ring would protect and was a magical
guard, so to speak to ward off all negativity through its continuity. Rings
were considered to be magical and/or sacred. Gods and Goddesses even wore rings
such as in the Babylonian mythology with tales of the rings of Shamash and Marduk.
Rings have always been associated with the magic, the zodiac, and even more.
Even today, the wedding ring is believed to hold a kind of power that can be
seen when a priest or minister blesses the wedding rings before the couple exchanges
them. This practice symbolizes protective powers over their marriage or union.
Now you may be wondering why a wedding ring is worn on the “ring finger”.
Well, this also goes back to ancient times and once again magic. As you delve
into history of the wedding ring and the reason, it is placed on the third finger
you will marvel at some of the beliefs. Here are a few historical facts concerning
the “ring finger”. In ancient times, the third finger was used to
apply herbal medicines to the body because the effectiveness of the cure would
be stronger. It was also believed that a nerve from the third finger went directly
to the heart. In astrology, this belief is similar, the “ring finger”
is called the heart finger because of the belief of the special nerve or vein
that was in the third finger connected to the heart and was a symbol of loved
and fidelity. No matter where you search throughout history the third finger
has always been used a symbol of love, faithfulness, trustworthiness, and fidelity.
With that said, you know just how important the wedding ring has been throughout
history is not just a ring but was used as a promise and union between couples.
So, now it is time for you to choose your everlasting wedding rings that will
not only symbolize your love and devotion for one another but also withstand
time and last forever, as your love for each other.
As you begin looking online and at your favorite jewelers you will find many
exquisite wedding rings and some are sure to be out of your price range. The
number one thing to do is to set a budget. No matter how much you can afford
to spend, you will be able to find the perfect set of wedding rings that will
show your love.
Next, you will have to decide what type of material you would like your rings
to be created from. Weddings rings are designed from materials such as yellow
gold, white gold, sterling silver, platinum, and titanium.
Yellow gold is still one of the most popular materials for engagement rings
and wedding bands and can be found in 10K, 14K, or 18K.
White gold is becoming a bit more popular because it tends to look a tad more
modern and stylish.
Platinum is one of the hardest metals that is used to create engagement and
wedding rings. Many people are now choosing this material because of its durability
and the idea that like their marriage it will withstand time. Platinum is a
very pure more so than gold, which is normally, only 75 percent gold and platinum
rings are usually around 95 percent platinum. These rings do tend to be a bit
more expensive but you are more than likely hoping that your ring will last
forever, so the price is well worth a ring that is so durable.
Next, of course is titanium. Titanium is kind of the new metal. It is very
long lasting, lightweight and not very expensive. These are the most durable
wedding rings on the market and are very popular among men because of their
elegant style and withstanding power. Yes, you can scratch the ring, but overall
they will withstand so much more wear and tear than any other metal.
You may hear that you should choose a wedding ring that will match most of
your clothing, but I totally disagree with this statement. A wedding ring is
not just costume jewelry that needs to blend in with your outfits. Your wedding
ring should be one that you desire to wear every day for the rest of your life.
If you looking for a wedding ring to match your clothing then you are really
looking for a mere decoration for your finger and not a symbol of everlasting
love.
Now you know what material you would love to wear but now comes the hardest
part of all. You must now choose the style. First, you must decide if you both
wish to wear matching designs or if you prefer your own individual style. The
most common styles for wedding rings include the traditional plain bands, bands
with beaded edges, bands with etched designs, two-tone bands, Celtic wedding
bands, solitaire rings with a precious stone such as a diamond, and solitaries
that have one larger stone with smaller stones circling.
Choosing the perfect gemstone for your wedding ring can also be difficult.
Diamonds of course are the most popular. However, even with diamonds, you have
choices to make; you will need to decide on size and even color. Pink diamonds
are now becoming very popular for many women. Remember not to choose soft gemstones
such as amethyst or aquamarine as they can be damaged if worn every day. The
harder stones are better for durability such as diamonds, rubies and sapphires.
Remember, above all, these are the weddings ring that you both will wear for
a very long time. It should stand for you love and devotion and commitment to
one another. Choose one that will last.
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